Divided loyalties of a Dewey-eyed fan

MY heart rate would be much lower this week if I was a neutral heading into today’s AFL Grand Final.

Instead, as a Geelong fan, things can go one of two ways – either basking in a victory as favourites or quite possibly being shattered to the point of no recovery.

I’m well aware most people don’t want Geelong to win the AFL premiership. Sure, that frustrates me as an avid Cats fan (and sixth generation, as I recently found out) but I get it.

It’s also funny how tribal things can get when it comes to supporting. You find yourself referring to the team you support as ‘us’ and ‘we’. Even though you haven’t laid a single tackle or touched one blade of grass in the pursuit of a premiership.

Today also leaves me in a predicament considering fellow Red Cliffs Football and Netball Club alum Dylan Stephens will be plying his trade for the Swans.

I’m in a bit of a pickle because it would be amazing to see “Dewey” win, and knowing his parents Rob and Ollie, how much it would mean to them.

Still, I hope it’s not at the expense of my own team.

I haven’t had the chance to attend an AFL Grand Final as yet, my older brother gets that opportunity today, but I can only imagine being in that atmosphere on the biggest day of the footy calendar.

Preliminary finals, however, just seem to have that bit more about them. With less corporate influence they are the people’s finals for a reason.

I was lucky enough to be there last Friday when Geelong beat Brisbane, although it’s probably raised more questions than answered from my own perspective.

It was an enjoyable game from our point of view, perhaps boring for the neutrals. And I’m glad the music between goals has been told to take a hike.

Sure it wasn’t jam packed, but the MCG still being 77,000 people strong is a sight to behold. The slow walk back afterwards while hip and shouldering the throngs of supporters is something special. When you win that is. After losing it’s a horrible place to be.

What is the better preparation for a grand final? A tight and energy sapping contests that gives you some momentum in close games? Or a runaway win to keep you fresh, but it’s less time stuck in a real arm wrestle?

Considering most of our side are closing on on their seniors cards maybe the way we went in was ideal. And it’s also going to come down to who handles the occasion better. If Sydney aren’t overawed and they can use their blistering counter attacks, they will give the Cats plenty of headaches.

I hope for our sake (see, there we go again) our experience and game plan can see us through, but you never know what’s going to happen on grand final day.

And I think that’s part of the magic we all enjoy.

Digital Editions


  • End of gas session set to Robinvale

    End of gas session set to Robinvale

    PROPERTIES owners, residents and businesses connected to the compressed natural gas supply at Robinvale are being invited to an information session ahead of the town’s…

More News

  • Peeps into the Past – 8 – 14 February: Off and racing

    Peeps into the Past – 8 – 14 February: Off and racing

    PRESENTED by Mildura & District Historical Society and compiled by Mildura Rural City Council Libraries. 100 YEARS AGO DROWNINGS: The melancholy record of drowning fatalities in the Murray River was…

  • Call out for old school mags

    Call out for old school mags

    THE Mildura Library is on the hunt for school magazines lost to the ages as part of a side project to help preserve the region’s history. For almost eight years,…

  • Spiritual and literal journeys

    Spiritual and literal journeys

    FROM transformative journeys across the world to the inner landscapes of letting go, seeking meaning, exploring hidden traditions, and embracing joy, books can chart many pathways toward discovering who we…

  • Sunshine, sport and a sweet life

    Sunshine, sport and a sweet life

    AS a woman who has seen a fair bit of this wonderful country in my 60-odd years, I can say with my hand on my heart that choosing to call…

  • Mildura Basketball Association results

    Mildura Basketball Association results

    Thursday, 5 February Under 12 Boys Division 1 – Irymple U12 Boys Smith Def Workers U12 Boys Jones 50–19, Saints U12 Boys D1 – Webley Def Hawks U12 Boys Div…

  • New machines dispensing proactive health

    New machines dispensing proactive health

    MILDURA Rural City is prioritising its sexual health this National Condom Day thanks to handy vending machines posted through the region. As part of the municipal Community Health and Wellbeing…

  • Workshop to unlock regional goldmine

    Workshop to unlock regional goldmine

    ACCORDING to Monica Davidson from Creative Plus Business, Wentworth and the surrounding region is a goldmine for cultural tourism. To help champion that idea she’s part of a team putting…

  • Global grain glut pushes growers toward self-storage

    Global grain glut pushes growers toward self-storage

    AUSTRALIAN grain growers are storing their product on farms rather than shipping it offshore via handlers as falling commodity prices cut into already thin margins. Shares in GrainCorp, one of…

  • Grants for farmers doing it tough

    Grants for farmers doing it tough

    FARMS affected by drought and bushfire could benefit from the second round of funding from the Look Over the Farm Gate program, which aims to support community events that focus…

  • 75 years of love: a diamond that never dulls

    75 years of love: a diamond that never dulls

    MERBEIN local Eric Wilson started giving his wife, Dot, flowers on Valentine’s Day 35 years into their marriage. And it’s a tradition that’s helped keep the 75-year marriage strong for…